“They tried to ruin my marriage,” that’s how Brooklyn, the eldest son of David and Victoria Beckham, described the actions of his parents in a six-page statement accusing his family of manipulation and mistreatment stretching back years.
The statement, posted Monday night on Instagram (January 19), gave fans a conclusive look at the depth of the rift inside the seemingly perfect Beckham family – perfection Brooklyn slammed as “inauthentic” and “performative.”
“I do not want to reconcile with my family,” the 26-year-old wrote, before addressing the allegations by a segment of the family’s fanbase who believe his wife, Nicola Peltz, is the architect of their separation.
“I’m not being controlled. I’m standing up for myself for the first time in my life.”
Brooklyn Beckham broke his silence about his relationship with his parents, accusing them of trying to destroy his marriage
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In the post, Brooklyn detailed a long history of tension and emotional ab*se that he claims came to a head during the planning of his 2022 wedding to Nicola Peltz.
He alleges that his mother was the main figure behind the tensions, “hijacking” the couple even before they were married.
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For instance, Brooklyn said Victoria abruptly canceled her commitment to design Nicola’s wedding dress at the last minute, despite previously agreeing and Nicola being “excited to wear her design.”
“My mum cancelled making Nicola’s dress in the eleventh hour… forcing her to urgently find a new dress.”
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But that wasn’t the only alleged interference. Brooklyn also claimed that in the weeks leading up to the wedding, both his parents “pressured and attempted to bribe” him into signing away the rights to his name – something he said would have affected him, Nicola, and their future children.
“They were adamant on me signing before my wedding date because then the terms of the deal would be initiated.
My holdout affected the payday, and they have never treated me the same since.”
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During planning, Brooklyn says his mother went so far as to call him “evil” for wanting to seat his grandmother Sandra and Nicola’s grandmother Naunni at the couple’s table – an arrangement he says was based on compassion, since both women had lost their husbands.
“Both of our parents had their own tables equally adjacent to ours.”
Brooklyn detailed how Victoria “hijacked” his first dance with Nicola, performing “inappropriate” moves on him
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In what is perhaps the most emotionally charged portion of the statement, Brooklyn described how his family disrespected Nicola on the night before the wedding, telling him that she was “not blood” and “not family.”
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“Since the moment I started standing up for myself with my family, I’ve received endless attacks from my parents, both privately and publicly, that were sent to the press on their orders.”
He said even his younger brothers were “sent to attack me on social media,” before ultimately blocking him “out of nowhere this last summer.”
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The statement also revealed a previously unreported incident during the wedding reception itself, considered by viewers not only inappropriate, but disturbing:
Brooklyn said his mother hijacked what was supposed to be his and Nicola’s first dance, dancing “inappropriately” with him in her place.
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“Marc Anthony called me to the stage, where in the schedule was planned to be my romantic dance with my wife—but instead my mum was waiting to dance with me instead,” he wrote.
“She danced very inappropriately on me in front of everyone. I’ve never felt more uncomfortable or humiliated in my entire life.”
The experience was so upsetting that Brooklyn and Nicola renewed their vows last year to “create new memories” of their wedding day, free of the “anxiety and embarrassment” they went through.
Brooklyn said his family was a “business,” with his parents prioritizing public perception over real affection
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At the same time, Brooklyn’s statement accused his family of prioritizing public image over emotional support.
He described how love in the Beckham household was measured by social media engagement and publicity, seeing the family as a business of its own.
“My family values public promotion and endorsements above all else. Brand Beckham comes first,” he wrote.
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“Family ‘love’ is decided by how much you post on social media, or how quickly you drop everything to show up and pose for a family photo opp—even if it’s at the expense of our professional obligations.”
He claimed that, despite being aware of this issue, he and Nicola showed up for “every fashion show, every party, and every press activity” to support his family’s image, yet when Nicola once asked for Victoria’s support during the LA wildfires to help save displaced dogs, “my mum refused.”
The Beckhams were described as manipulative and ruthless, deliberately spreading lies through the media to damage their opponents
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Brooklyn also rejected the recurring public narrative that he is under Nicola’s control, saying it is a reversal of the truth, and adding it was deliberately manufactured by his own family to paint her in a negative light.
Brooklyn positioned the story as a calculated tactic from within the Beckham circle: a narrative weaponized to deflect blame and damage Nicola’s image in the process.
“The narrative that my wife controls me is completely backwards. I have been controlled by my parents for most of my life.”
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He described a childhood filled with “overwhelming anxiety,” and a constant fear of stepping out of line, crediting his newfound emotional peace to cutting ties with his family.
“For the first time in my life, since stepping away from my family, that anxiety has disappeared. I wake up every morning grateful for the life I chose, and have found peace and relief,” he added.
The statement comes after Brooklyn instructed his parents to contact him only through his lawyer
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Brooklyn’s statement coincided with Nicola sharing a tribute to designer Valentino Garavani, who passed away in Rome on Monday and had designed her wedding gown after Victoria allegedly pulled out.
According to the Daily Mail relations deteriorated to such a degree last summer that Brooklyn requested all communication go through lawyers.
As Bored Panda previously reported, the decision was motivated by Brooklyn’s desire to “protect himself” and his “mental health,” as per a source close to the family.
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Despite this, Brooklyn stated his family opted to simply ignore the request.
“My parents and their team have continued to go to the press, leaving me with no choice but to speak for myself and tell the truth,” he wrote.
“I have seen with my own eyes the lengths that they’ll go through to place countless lies in the media, mostly at the expense of innocent people, to preserve their own facade.”
Brooklyn reportedly remains in contact with his grandparents but has made it clear he does not want his parents speaking about him in public or on social media.
“All we want is peace, privacy, and happiness for us and our future family,” he concluded.
“I believe him.” Many netizens stood behind Brooklyn after his statement
