Gracen Geagan’s husband, Kevin, may be 34 years her senior, but she has insisted that their sex life is thriving.
The social media star, 26, told the Daily Mail that she and Kevin, 60, are far from tame in the bedroom, despite their massive age gap.
‘Honestly, I don’t think our intimacy feels much different from any couple who are deeply attracted to one another and genuinely enjoy being together, as we do,’ Gracen explained.
‘Being with Kevin has always felt very natural to me, including physically.’
The Geagans first met when Gracen was just 22, managing the front of house at a fine dining restaurant that Kevin, then 56, frequented.
They got married in November 2015, and now showcase their unusual relationship online.
Gracen said that, these days, it seems social media is more concerned about their sex life than they are.
‘I think, at its best, intimacy is really an extension of emotional connection, trust, admiration and feeling safe with one another,’ she said. ‘And we’re fortunate to have that.
Gracen and Kevin Geagan at the beach in matching swimsuits. Kevin is 34 years older than Gracen, but she has insisted that their sex life is thriving
The social media star, 26, told the Daily Mail that she and Kevin, 60, are far from tame in the bedroom
‘I think feeling genuinely seen, valued and understood by someone creates a very strong foundation for attraction and intimacy.
‘People often assume attraction is primarily physical, but feeling emotionally safe with someone is deeply attractive, too.’
Kevin told the Daily Mail he undergoes testosterone therapy, which he claimed gives him the libido of a 20-year-old.
But, he said, his decision to start stemmed from his interest in longevity and focus on long-term health, vitality and overall well-being rather than an attempt to stay young.
‘For me, testosterone therapy was never really about ‘anti-aging’ in the superficial sense, but more about maintaining energy, strength, mental clarity and quality of life as I’ve gotten older,’ he explained.
‘I think people often underestimate how much lifestyle, health, mindset and overall wellness influence attraction, confidence and connection within a relationship.’
According to Gracen, the couple hasn’t had to overcome any barriers when it came to intimacy because their relationship felt ‘natural’ from the start.
Gracen explained that she is ‘deeply attracted’ to her husband
Kevin said he undergoes testosterone therapy, which he claimed gives him the libido of a 20-year-old
‘Which is an incredible feeling,’ she said. ‘To us, love has felt far less about age and far more about peace.
‘Early on, I loved simply sitting and listening to him talk about his life experiences, both the successes and the challenges.
‘He’s a very thoughtful and open person, and that depth made me feel very connected to him.’
The one quirk that Gracen had to get used to is Kevin’s insistence on calling instead of texting, which she said she now finds ‘oddly charming.’
Kevin, who has children of his own from a previous marriage, said he believes their age difference has only impacted their relationship ‘positively.’
‘We’ve been together for over four years now, so we’re well beyond the initial excitement of a brand-new relationship,’ he said. ‘We still genuinely enjoy being close to one another and spending most of our time together.’
Gracen and Kevin pose by a pool. She said the one age-related quirk she has had to get used to is Kevin’s insistence on calling instead of texting
Despite being deeply in love, the couple has dealt with their fair share of hate online, particularly, from people who question their sex life.
‘Apparently, the internet believes men turn into pumpkins at 50,’ Kevin said.
In response to haters, he pointed out that attraction is deeply personal.
‘And fortunately for me, I’m very attracted to Gracen.’
The couple said they understand people will have strong opinions about their significant age gap because they share so much about their relationship online.
‘Neither of us bases our sense of identity on either praise or criticism from strangers,’ Gracen said. ‘So we’re able to remain very at peace with what works for us while still respecting that everyone is entitled to their own perspective.’
