Most people reserve their deepest and darkest secrets for their spouse. But some save them for a total stranger.
Four years ago, Amira Evans began sharing risqué content online, but she never imagined it would end with her knowing the seedy secrets of hundreds of married men.
The 26-year-old, who relocated to Thailand from the UK last year, has hundreds of men week subscribing to her online content every week – many of whom appear to be happily married.
But Evans, who now earns around $40,000 month on OnlyFans, knows better.
The social media sensation, who first began her career as a webcam model after a friend persuaded her to join, told the Daily Mail that she has liaised with countless married men over the years.
She never meets them in person, communicating only online, but has since learned a host of bedroom tips that could save any marriage.
Evans insisted that while she doesn’t ask her clients about their marital status, they will often offer up the information voluntarily.
The majority of her subscribers talk ‘openly’ about their relationships and many of the men that she engages with have been with their partners for over a decade.
‘They’ve got kids, they’ve got a really good job… A lot of these guys, when they are on OnlyFans and on these adult sites, they’re looking for something opposite to their normal life,’ she told the Daily Mail.
Four years ago, Amira Evans began sharing risqué content online, but she never imagined it would end with her knowing the seedy secrets of hundreds of married men
But even as a seasoned content creator, Evans has been shocked by their brazenness on occasion.
Recounting one of her horror stories, she detailed how one married man had requested her services while he was lying in bed next to his wife, who he said was asleep and completely unaware of what her spouse was up to.
‘It was nighttime for him and daytime for me, so it was quite dark, and I could just see the light reflecting off his phone,’ she recalled.
‘He lay down in bed, and he pointed the phone to his wife, who was actually sleeping in the bed next to him, while he was talking, while he was masturbating,’ she said in disgust.
‘While he was fantasizing… his poor wife was next to him. And in my head, I was like, “This poor woman,”‘ Evans admitted.
The OnlyFans star said she believes her married subscribers tell her things they would never tell their wives.
‘Married man subscribing to me used to shock me at the beginning, but I’ve been doing it for a number of years now, so I know that it’s really not shocking,’ she explained.
‘Initially, I felt really bad for the wives and thought these men were really scummy for doing these things behind their partners’ backs,’ she reflected.
While Evans said some men have indulged in some of their secret fantasies, it has helped her recognize what some people are missing in their relationships
‘But I know that it’s not my fault and I’m not enabling this behavior because if it wasn’t me they were subscribed to, it would be the next girl and the next, and the next,’ she reasoned.
She often indulges in some of their secret fantasies, which has also helped her recognize what some people are missing in their relationships.
Below, Evans detailed her tips for keeping your marriage alive.
Start small when experimenting in the bedroom
Evans said that most of the time, when men come to her, they are too afraid to talk to their wives about their fantasies and what they would like in the bedroom, particularly after several years of marriage.
She suggested starting ‘small’ with expressing what they really want when it comes to sex, and ‘working their way up.’
‘If your wife really loves you and really cares for you and what you want, then she’s not going to judge you,’ she said.
‘But just don’t go all in and scare her.’
Evans said that when married men complain to her about their wives not understanding them, they often haven’t actually had a conversation with them yet.
‘They just make assumptions like “she will never understand” or “she’ll not like this,”‘ Evans shared.
Detailing her own experience with clients, who she claims are mainly the ‘submissive type,’ she said, ‘I will have that conversation [with them].
‘Are there any limits? Is there anything that you don’t want me to do? Is there anything you don’t want me to say?’
Evans encouraged couples, especially men, to always talk about what they want to experiment with in the bedroom
Communicate with your partner about fantasies
Evans said it is important for couples to talk about their kinks and fetishes – with many of her subscribers complaining of dull sex in their home life.
She recalled one of her subscribers saying he and his wife have ‘quite a vanilla sex life,’ spurring him to pay for her content.
‘For example, he’s the breadwinner at home, he’s a dominant father figure, he’s a good husband… On the outside, everything’s fine, normal, whatever.
‘But then, the wife will go to sleep, and then he’ll come on these websites, on these adult platforms, and he’ll be totally opposite.’
She said these men often want to be stood on or kicked, and said that ‘a massive one I get all the time is men [with wives] asking me to peg them.’
‘Ask your husband his fetishes, kinks, and fantasies, or just check his search history, it will tell you everything you need to know,’ she urged.
‘[Some] men just assume their wives would instantly shut them down or think they’re gross or think they are weird,’ she added. ‘But if they have an open chat with no judgement they could be surprised.’
Evans explained that women have a sex drive too, quipping: ‘Lots of married women want to please their husbands and make them happy, whether it’s spending quality time with them or fulfilling any “different” kinks.’
Evans said it is important for couples to talk about their kinks and fetishes, with many of her subscribers complaining of dull sex in their home life
Surprise your partner
Evans said that she often suspects the men who subscribe to her content are too embarrassed to ask their partners for what they really want in the bedroom – adding that the element of surprise may spice things up.
‘You can buy your partner a toy – even one you can use remotely – because she might be into it too,’ she suggested.
‘She might find it hot to have remote play.’
Alternatively, the OnlyFans creator suggested couples shop for sex toys together.
‘As long as everyone is in it together, and as long as you ease her in and don’t scare her off, I think it could work,’ she said.
‘Women can be into this stuff too.’
